SELF ACCEPTANCE
The journey to navigate through thick and bushy forest of life begins with a single step of self evaluation."A person that knows the ropes is not likely to get tied up,"Mae West.
Each human being has strengths, weakness, likes and dislikes that calls for realization.Selection of friends and those to include in our innercircle acts as an endearing idea because it realy contributes to our success.
Understanding oneself acts as cornerstone of our survival success for the coming years.This raises our self esteem that no external discouraging words can damage our innerself.There are four areas when worked and researched on enables us to know more about ourselves and what to achieve in life.
Unknown area
This area consists of information that is not known to oneself and others. The information may include; abilities and talents that when discovered gives us opportunity to make wise career choice.
Open area
This entails information known to both oneself and other people.Information contained by other people mostly consists of rumours.According to Oscar Wilde,"The truth is rarely pure and never simple."Self evaluation assists us to get true data about ourselves .
Blind area
This section consists of information of what people say about us but we refuse to listen.This is a critical area where one has to be wise in choosing the information to let in.Discouraging nature of words that people say about us thwarts our abilities and talents from lighting -up.
Hidden area
This mainly consists of information we are unwilling to share because we have no trust in people.As people say there is no secret between two people, therefore personal information should only dwell in the owner's heart.
Decision making, goal setting, relationship creation contributes largely to self realization. Nothing can halt a self confident person's journey to success.
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